Now, typically I just come up with a topic and write about it, but today I wanted to do something a little different as I am frequently asked if I leave the discussions open for questions. Today, I decided to do just that. So, I'm asking YOU, what do you want to know? I'm opening the door up for questions, subjects for new posts, etc. As I always try to make clear, I am NOT licensed to counsel you, but I AM able to give my advice if asked. So, please post your questions for me, topic ideas, comments about my blog, whatever below. Oh, and please do not post any negative questions or comments, take the negative energy elsewhere. Thanks for all of your support! I hope you to hear from you all soon.
Shakina
My question today is im in a relationship and the person that im with does not get the job done in the bedroom. i've talked to him and talked but he just want to do the samething over and over again. I mean im a freak i like to do different things when it comes to sex and he doesn't so tell me what should i do.
ReplyDeleteIn I'm in a8 year long relationship and all we do it's archie about little things sands I keep thinking about walling out but don't because even though agree drives me crazy I actually love jet. What should I do?
ReplyDeleteHello my sister in law sister. This is Lawanda Haywood coming in. It took my forever to find this blog. I'm so excited to be on here. Where should I started or begain I love discussions
ReplyDeleteOk, thank you first and foremost for even posting a comment/question. I definitely appreciate that. Now, to Someone Special, my answer would be this. I know you stated that you've already talked to him about the issue, but I'd first try talking to him again as communication is key in any relationship you have. Next, I'd try slowly implementing new things into your sex life (i.e. try getting him to have sex in different places like the floor instead of the bed, the kitchen instead of the bedroom, etc). However, in the end, if you're not sexually compatible things will end up falling apart as you'll get bored and possibly end up cheating which would of course cause a strain on your r-ship.
ReplyDeleteNow on to Anonymous's question, I THINK what you're asking is what you should do in a relationship where all you all do is ARGUE about little things, right? (If not please correct me.) If I am correct in my assumption then my answer would be this, if you're always arguing about little things there is an underlying, deeper issue there. You need to talk to him to see if you all can figure out what that deeper issue is so that it can be resolved. It may be that, since you did say it's an 8 year long relationship, you all need time apart. Or depending on when you all got together, you may be growing apart, heading in different directions in life and it may be time to call it quits. Whatever the issue is though, you all need to have a good heart to heart and see if you can work it all out.
ReplyDeleteLawanda, I'm glad you found the blog and that you're excited about it. Hope you enjoy everything you read here and pass it along to your friends. LOL Thanks for the support!
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