Variety Is The Spice Of Life (Are You Open Enough?)

Are you tired of the same ole, same ole in bed? Do you wish your partner would be more open in the bedroom? Do you just feel your sex life has become boring? Then I say don't talk about it, be about it. Find some new things you'd like to try and communicate them to your partner. If you're skeptical about trying new things, find a compromise. Variety is the spice of life! There are so many variations of things you could try. Perhaps you want to bring sex toys into the equation. Now, let me speak to the guys for a second here and make it clear that they actually have created toys meant to be pleasurable for both men and women (i.e. the wevibe or butterfly). And for the more conservative consumer, they have created a website dedicated to selling "intimacy products" for married couples, visit book22.com. Maybe you want to bring food in. You can try whip cream or caramel or edible oils. Don't want to get sticky? Try eating aphrodisiac foods like avocado, chocolate, bananas, and watermelon the "natural Viagra". You can try role playing, watching pornographic films together, having sex in a place other than the bed, buy a Kama Sutra and try some of the positions you see in there. All I'm saying is, sex should be fun for both parties which means you most definitely have to be open and honest. You have to be willing to make some type of compromise. Now I'm not saying you have to try things you truly don't feel comfortable with just to make your partner happy, BUT you should try to reach a compromise that will both spice things up a bit and leave you both feeling satisfied.