Monday, April 16, 2012

Can A Relationship Ever Really Be 50/50?

I have often heard women say they want a relationship where they are treated equal, a relationship that is 50/50. That left me to wonder if that is even possible and I have come to believe in most cases it is not. Let me tell you why. I honestly don't know too many women willing to pay for 50 % of the dates they go on, to split household chores such as taking out the trash, and perhaps open doors for him on occassion, okay perhaps that's an exaggeration, but you get my point.  Although a lot of women don't take the time to consider what that really means or they've thought about it and aren't able to follow thru with all this type of relationship requires. What do you think? Can a relationship ever truly 50/50?

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Modesty Is The Best Policy

 After going to church today and taking a look around, I felt this post would be much needed. Now I know while in church your mind should be on praising God, however, when you're sitting in church trying to concentrate on the sermon and some girl is prancing back in a shirt that has her girls less than covered, it's kind of hard to miss. Let me go on record as saying I definitely don't think you have to dress like a nun when heading to church, in fact, I totally agree you should dress nice. BUT while dressing fashionably, you should also dress modestly. You should NOT be wearing outfits you'd wear to the club to church. Church is where you go to praise God not. show the world what your mama  gave you. All I'm tryin g to say is, when in doubt, cover it up. Less is more. Dress  like a lady in the Lord's house.