Confidence=Sexy

We all have our insecurities. It can sometimes feel as though whatever it is that you're insecure about it in the spotlight and everyone around you knows exactly what it is. Here's the truth though, EVERYONE has insecurities and most people are busy dealing with what's going on with their lives and are certainly not occupied with whatever it is that you're insecure about. Letting your insecurities consume your thoughts can really hinder you from being successful in all aspects of life, especially in the romance department. Dig this, no one wants to be with someone who is so caught up with worrying about their insecurities that they can't focus on anything else. No one wants to be with someone they always have to convince they are attractive, intelligent, good enough. You have to learn to love yourself for the person that you are. Know that we are all different, unique and not one person on this earth is perfect. Love yourself for you and what you are and people will love you in return. You have to love yourself FIRST. Here are a few suggestions to get you to loving yourself the way you should. Find an affirmation that you like, something like "I am wonderful, I can do anything" or "I love myself just as I am" and repeat that to yourself daily until you truly believe it. If you have body image issues, read up on or ask someone you trust to help you find outfits that accentuate your best features and expand on that, your body is yours, LOVE IT! Exercising can help you increase feelings of happiness and confidence, make time for it. Write down ten things you think are great about yourself and read them daily, soon you'll see that you have more great things about you than you originally thought. And last but certainly not least, if you believe there is a God and believe that His word is true, read the Bible and see the awesome things that he has to say about you! God loves you, thinks you're amazing just the way you are, I'm certain He knows what He's talking about. :)