Tuesday, August 2, 2011

If You Like It, Put A Ring On It

Some women feel they aren't complete until they have a huge rock on their hand that they can show off to the world. The ring symbolizes a higher status in the community, that you're better than women who do not have a man. Here is what I would like to say, a big ring does not tell you how much a man loves you. It does not mean you will have the greatest marriage in the world. And if you did not feel complete BEFORE you got a ring, the ring is NOT going to change that, in fact, in some cases it could make things worse. Now I know we as women all dream of our dream man asking us to spend the rest of our lives with him while offering a huge rock to us to seal the deal, BUT the size of the ring should not be your biggest concern. Have you ever noticed that some of the happiest married women have small rings if they are wearing one at all? Money does not equal happiness just like a huge ring does not equal a great a marriage. So, don't be so concerned with the size of the ring you want him to buy, be more concerned with whether or not he is a good man who will treat you like the queen you are. Truth be told most men are just regular, hard working Joes who want to share their love with someone special even if they don't have enough money to buy an expensive ring. It's great if you meet someone who can afford to buy you expensive things, but don't let that be what you base your decision to be in a relationship on.

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