I'll Be The Other Woman

This is something that has become more and more popular these days; being the other woman. Now I've never understood why you would be happy/satisfied being second to anyone because in essence you are. You should not be happy being some one's side girl, you should want to be their number one or nothing at all. Think about this, nine times out of ten, he's not going to leave his significant other for you and even IF he did, what makes you so sure he wouldn't cheat on you the same way he did her? Also, if he's married and he and his wife decide to call it quits, she may be entitled to alimony, spousal support, perhaps pay offs for emotional distress and whatever else you can sue for these days, even child support if they have children which means he'll be obligated to continue supporting her even after they've split. Even if he has a substantial amount of money when you meet him, after his wife is done with him he may be pretty much broke. Do you think you could really benefit from this situation? Seriously, he's most likely sneaking you around for fear of being caught by his significant other, he can't spend as much time with you because he doesn't want to cause drama at home, your time with him can easily be cut short if she calls and demands his attention, if things aren't going so well at home, he may have to disappear for a while to pacify his main chick. I say why go through that? Why put up with all that hassle? Don't you deserve to be a queen? Then you need to find yourself a king. A king will treat you like royalty, will be happy to have you and only you on his arm, will make sure there's no doubt in your mind that he loves you. You have to know that you deserve to be number one and not settle for anything else, don't be the other woman, be his ONLY woman.