"Hubby Material"

Yesterday while on Twitter, I noticed that one of the TT's was "wifey material" and it made me think about something. It is crazy that women are expected to act a certain way, but men are free to do whatever, or at least that's the way it seems. Why is it that you, meaning most men, feel you are free to act as irrationally as you want until you find what you'd consider wifey material, but you don't consider trying to become hubby material? Why does the girl you're looking for have to behave in a manner that would increase her chances of becoming your wife if you won't behave in a manner that would make you more "husbandlike"? Here's what I'm getting at, men you should give off what you want to attract and ladies, we should expect more from our men. A man who parties all the time, has a different girl every day of the week, gets falling down drunk all weekend every weekend is NOT husband material. A man who is disrespectful to you, or any woman for that matter, doesn't want to do anything with his life, has absolutely no plans or aspirations is NOT husband material. Now, I realize that it is definitely hard to find a good man so it can be VERY tempting to settle for the first man who shows you the attention you've been missing these past few weeks, months, or even years, HOWEVER, I must remind you that having a piece of a man is certainly NOT better than not having one at all. When he gets done showing you what a manipulative womanizer, lazy moocher, or disrespectful jerk he is, you'll realize just how bad you really could've been all by yourself. A man who isn't really what you need is more detrimental to you than all of the lonely nights you'll have before finding someone who truly is "hubby material". So, I ask you, ladies, what makes a man "hubby material" to you? Do you think you've ever met a man who is or could potentially be "hubby material"?