Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Do Women Know Really What They Want?

It's an age old question; do women really even know what they want? We all say we want a "good man". We all have, in most cases, an extensive list of qualities we want in a man. We dream of him often, we hope each good looking guy we meet will be him. Then it happens, we meet a guy who is extremely good looking, he's intelligent and sweet, we're instantly infactuated with him, although we can feel something isn't quite right about him. Maybe he's a smooth talker, the player type, a bit on the thuggish side, you know, just the kind of guy Mama warned us about. So, why do we stay? In some cases, we hope we're wrong or that we can change him. In some cases, we're so tired of waiting for Mr Right that we graciously settle for Mr. Right Now.  And in some cases, we think having some man is better than having no man at all. The truth is, most of us are certain of what we want. We want our Prince Charming, nice house and car, and beautiful kids, but because of our insecurities, bacause of the stigma of becoming an "old maid", or because we hate feeling like we don't know how to keep a man, we settle. And because we give in to our insecurities and settle for less, when a better man comes along, we're not sure we deserve him. Yes, we're beautiful, intelligent, sweet, kind, etc, yet we often times don't know our worth. So, do women really know what they want? Absolutely, we're just not always willing to wait long enough to get it and further more, not sure we're worthy enough to have it.

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