A REAL Man

Okay, I felt compelled to write a post on what a REAL man is and isn't due to the number of drama filled Facebook status updates about what this "stupid hoe" or "dumb trick" is doing or saying. First and foremost, if YOU are the one telling her that he is your man, he really isn't yours to begin with. When a man finds and gets what he really wants in a woman, he will let the world know, he won't leave any doubt in your mind that you are his one and only and he'll never give another girl the impression that you aren't. A REAL man is faithful, you won't have to argue with other girls over who the "real" Mrs. such and such is. A REAL man will treat you like the queen that you are and he'll respect AND your family and whatever it is you feel is important to you. A REAL man will NOT curse you out at the drop of a hat, cheat on you repeatedly and act as if you're in the wrong for being upset, he won't lie to you constantly, he won't get you pregnant, deny the baby, then leave you to take care of it alone, he isn't jobless, homeless, car less, and education deprived and not trying to do anything about it. I said all of that to say this, if you have to put up a Facebook status cursing a different girl out about "your" man each and every day, you need to let that go. And if he can't take care of himself, why would you think he'd be any good for you. A REAL man takes care of himself, and if he isn't already where he wants to be, you can be damn sure he's doing everything in his power to get there.