Women Are Not Asexual

It annoys me to the core when I hear comments such as "she done got herself knock up" or "she done got herself pregnant". Women cannot create a baby alone and it is crazy that the stigma is still only placed on the woman. Even if it is common knowledge that she is in a relationship the blame is placed solely on her especially if people view her as too young, unwed, or the couple already has a lot of children. She is also blamed if her mate has or has the potential to have large sums of money. It is as if people think women produce both sperm and eggs and creates a child alone. Don't men have a little something to do with creating a life? Are women to seek out, purchase, and put on condoms for men to ensure a baby is not created in each and every sexual encounter? Should the responsibility of preventing unwanted pregnancies be placed solely on the women? Tell me your thoughts.