Should You Try To Force The Attraction?

I want to thank everyone once again for the comments left on my posts, I appreciate that so much. I'm sure many of you have been in a situation where you like everything about a person in theory, they have a lot of things going for themselves, they are fun to be around, you have good conversation with them, BUT you're just not sexually attracted to them. Maybe they're bigger than you're used to, maybe they're shorter or taller, maybe they don't have the best skin, whatever the case may be, you're just not feeling them sexually. Perhaps you're questioning whether or not you should try to make a relationship work with this person because they have a lot of qualities you want in a mate minus the physical. Well, I'm here to give you my take. If you're not attracted to the person sexually, you don't need to even go there. Nine times out of ten if you're not attracted to the person, you'll end up meeting someone you are attracted to and end up cheating. I thoroughly believe in what Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger says all the time on her show "the pecker does the picking". Now, of course there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule so maybe you will be able make things work without the sexual attraction, but remember that's the exception NOT the rule so it doesn't work that way for everybody. All I want you to do is think long and hard about what you're doing before you do it because you definitely don't want to string someone along if you're not interested in being with them. Treat people how you want to be treated. What's your take on this?