Women Are Not Asexual

It annoys me to the core when I hear comments such as "she done got herself knock up" or "she done got herself pregnant". Women cannot create a baby alone and it is crazy that the stigma is still only placed on the woman. Even if it is common knowledge that she is in a relationship the blame is placed solely on her especially if people view her as too young, unwed, or the couple already has a lot of children. She is also blamed if her mate has or has the potential to have large sums of money. It is as if people think women produce both sperm and eggs and creates a child alone. Don't men have a little something to do with creating a life? Are women to seek out, purchase, and put on condoms for men to ensure a baby is not created in each and every sexual encounter? Should the responsibility of preventing unwanted pregnancies be placed solely on the women? Tell me your thoughts.

Top 5 Ways NOT To Break-Up

I've complied a list of the top 5 ways to break up with your mate. Here it goes:

5. Writing a letter or giving a card to let them know it is over.
4. Asking a mutual friend to deliver the news that you want to break up.
3. Putting all of their belongings out (couples that live together).
2. Completely ignoring calls, texts, etc. from the other person.
1. Changing your relationship status to single on Facebook, tweeting about being single again on Twitter, posting a break-up video for your mate on You Tube.

If you can think of any more ways Not to break up with your partner or have a break up horror stories post a comment and share it.

Does A Good Trip "Down South" Go A Long Way?

Okay, so quite some time ago I wrote a post asking if a good bj goes a long way so I decided to ask the same question but to the women. They say women are like ovens, they need time to warm up so I know some women operate by the "you got to lick it before you stick" saying so my question for you and all other women would be does a good "trip down south" go a long way? Fellas, please feel free to give your input as well.

To Shave Or Not To Shave; That Is The Question

Ultimately, it is up to a woman or man whether or not he/she shaves "down there", however, it seems to be much more of an issue when we're discussing a woman's genitalia. Men make is clear what they like down there and most women don't. You see, I've been told that men like a woman who's clean shaven because it makes oral sex more enjoyable for men since when a woman is clean shaven they don't have to worry about getting pubic hairs in their mouths or having to do a whole lot of work to find the clit. Here's the thing though, most men have no idea how long it takes to shave, how irritated it can get down there after shaving, or anything else for that matter that goes along with shaving. Now, I can say there are some definite benefits to shaving such as it's cleaner, it  does provide a better avenue for sexual pleasure, and some would argue it's more sanitary/is healthier although other studies say hair is there to provide a barrier to hold back bacteria and dirt which could cause infection. Now, this post isn't only about women shaving, it is also about men because believe it or not men, women can get hair in their mouths, too and not all women are fans of that. Shaving could be beneficial in that avenue as well as the fact that hair could actually be making your favorite body part appear a bit smaller than it is. So, my question to all would be, to shave or not to shave? Should you shave or not shave based solely on your partner's preference? Let me hear your thoughts.

IS Facebook The Devil?

It's become common to hear people say that Facebook is the devil. It's full of drama, messes up relationships and breaks up friendships. It's such a big deal that some people have taken to monitoring their significant others Facebook friend list to "make sure they aren't cheating", but i say where there's a will there's a way. What's your take? Is Facebook the devil? Or would people cheat with or without it?

Should You Try To Force The Attraction?

I want to thank everyone once again for the comments left on my posts, I appreciate that so much. I'm sure many of you have been in a situation where you like everything about a person in theory, they have a lot of things going for themselves, they are fun to be around, you have good conversation with them, BUT you're just not sexually attracted to them. Maybe they're bigger than you're used to, maybe they're shorter or taller, maybe they don't have the best skin, whatever the case may be, you're just not feeling them sexually. Perhaps you're questioning whether or not you should try to make a relationship work with this person because they have a lot of qualities you want in a mate minus the physical. Well, I'm here to give you my take. If you're not attracted to the person sexually, you don't need to even go there. Nine times out of ten if you're not attracted to the person, you'll end up meeting someone you are attracted to and end up cheating. I thoroughly believe in what Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger says all the time on her show "the pecker does the picking". Now, of course there are ALWAYS exceptions to every rule so maybe you will be able make things work without the sexual attraction, but remember that's the exception NOT the rule so it doesn't work that way for everybody. All I want you to do is think long and hard about what you're doing before you do it because you definitely don't want to string someone along if you're not interested in being with them. Treat people how you want to be treated. What's your take on this?

Does Being Intoxicated Make Sex Better?

So... Sex is already supposed to be fun and exciting, BUT some believe that being under the influence of certain substances can enhance the pleasure. Now, I will say that if the sex is good and is even better when you are intoxicated and it works for you, do you. However, if you find that you have to be intoxicated in order to engage in sex with your partner, you need to leave that alone. I can say that in my own experience, when a man is "under the influence", he does seem to be a bit more adventurous, and sometimes even lasts longer. I don't know why that is, but I'm certain everyone who's been in this type of situation has his/her own opinion about it. I'd like to think it is a placebo effect, that you have all that you need to make sex as exciting and pleasurable as you want it to be, however, you feel invincible while under the influence, meaning you don't really need whatever it is that you're using you just think you do. What is your take on this? Does being intoxicated REALLY make sex better?