Just Hold On

The key is knowing exactly what you want and truly sticking with it. Beware of wolves in sheep's clothing! Okay, let me break it down for you. You meet a guy/girl, he/she seems like the man/woman of your dreams in the beginning, but as time goes on, you realize they are anything but. He/she has an amazing body/great looks, but their personality is not even the least bit interesting. Or you meet someone and they are the sweetest, most intellectual thing, but their looks aren't the best. Now, I'm a firm believer that looks aren't everything BUT they DO count! You don't want to be with someone simply because they are nice and have some qualities that you want in a man/woman but you're not even remotely attracted to them, chances are you'll either end up cheating or miserable when you realize that if you'd just held out you'd have met someone with both the looks and personality you wanted. Now, let me back track and explain what I mean here, you may have your dream man or woman built up in your head, he/she is this tall, is of this body type, has this length hair, etc, but chances are your dream man or woman won't be exactly that and you'll still be attracted to them! Why? Because they will be the RIGHT person for you! Don't judge a book by it's cover! Just because he/she looks good doesn't mean he/she is good or right for you. See what his/her personality is like, find out what their values are, do they have goals for their life and are they working on trying to reach them? In a nutshell, what I'm saying is, don't lower your standards simply because you're lonely, have faith that the right guy/girl will come. He/she may not look as you expected but they will be just what I need. Am I saying God will send you an unattractive yet intellectual guy/girl? No, I'm just saying they may not look as you imagined, they'll be attractive but maybe not in the ways you thought. Maybe he'll be a little shorter than you expected, maybe she'll have a different body type than you thought you wanted but in the end he/she will be the TOTAL package and that's all that matters, what you should hold out for.