Women are NOTORIOUS for trying to change men or trying to change their minds about things that will never happen. With this in mind, I compiled a list of ways to tell that a man REALLY does NOT want to get married.
1. He straight out TELLS you he doesn't want to get married. I know a lot of us think "He doesn't really mean that" or "When he sees how good a woman I am, he'll change his mind". But ladies, a word of advice, if he says he doesn't want to get married BELIEVE HIM!
2. Words like wedding, marriage, reception are like kryptonyte to him, he seems to fade away at the mention of anything marriage related. If even the word marriage makes him hyperventilate. He's not ready, ladies.
3. You guys have "been together" for over a year and you have yet to meet any of his family or more than one or two friends. If he really thought you were a catch, he'd be showing you off to the world.
4. He makes plans for the future but you're not included in those plans.
If he can see you in his future, he'll include you in it. His way of speaking will go from I and me to us and we.
5. He is still messing around with other women and has no shame in his game. If he is flaunting other women and letting you know you're not the only one, why would you want to marry him anyway?
6. He doesn't include you in things that are important to him or you're included as an after thought. If he really wants to marry you, he wants to include you in things that are important to him... And things that aren't so important to him for that matter, he just wants YOU in his life
7. If he talks about marrying you but makes no real effort to show he's serious (i.e. not buying an engagement ring or buying a ring and putting off setting a date, setting a date and then backing out once planning begins). He either not ready, doesn't really know what he wants, or he's stringing you along. Either way, you have to figure out if you're going to stick around long enough to see if he'll really marry you.
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