Obsessive Lovers

Have you ever met someone who seemed just a bit too concerned with their partner's life? Or maybe someone who was a bit too clingy? How about dating someone who wanted to know your every move and called you numerous times throughout the day and often multiple times within an hour? People like this should certainly NOT be in relationships and they most definitely should NOT procreate until their issues are resolved. These people are most often insecure and think that by controlling or holding on tight to someone else they can be validated. In a lot of cases where a person is obsessive, there is also emotional and physical abuse and you must be careful in plotting your escape from this person if it is your decision to leave... I always try to see the good in people and believe that everyone can change for the better if they make a conscious effort to do so, it is up to you though, to decide if you want to stick around while they try to make that change for the better. All I'm saying is obsessive lovers are not really lovers at all as what Oprah said on her show Oprah's Lifeclass that she's repeated multiple times over the years and that is "love does not hurt". Love is not jealous or distrusting either. If you're in a relationship with an obsessive person, please seek help immediately because if that person isn't helped soon the results could be deadly.