Saturday, July 13, 2013

Could You Stay If You Were Sexually Incompatible?

So... Yeah, I'm writing again. LOL Anyways, we all know, or at least we SHOULD all know, what we want from our mates when it comes to sex. Are you someone who likes to try new things? Sex toys? Public places? Are you more of a person who likes to keep it simple? Same positions? Same place? Ask yourself these questions. Now think about your mate. What type of person is he/she sexually? Are you guys on the same page sexually? Okay, so now that we've thought about that, let me explain what I mean by sexually incompatible. In my mind, sexually incompatibility would be where one partner feels being adventurous in bed is the way to go while the other partner feels keeping it plain and simple is the way. Or maybe one partner is ready to get it on any time day or night 24/7 while the other partner likes it maybe every other week or so. Now, there are in fact ways to work on this issue. You could try sex therapy, slowly introducing sex toys or porn, you could try expressing to your partner your wants and needs, to name a few. Sex, I feel, is a big part of relationships, however, it isn't the only part of relationships nor is it the most important. So, what you'd next need to ask yourself is, do you really want to deal with a partner you are not sexually compatible with? Could you deal with that? I mean, really, do you think the issue could be resolved?

3 comments:

  1. Personally, it would b difficult 4 me 2 have a r-ship wit a chick if we cant get on da same page sexually. I mean it would b frustrating & start 2 b a strain on da r-ship. I think we can get on da same page tho if we both willing 2 try & work on it. JM

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  2. Personally, I like to try different things no matter what it is but my mate he is not open to things like I am. Then it use to b da same positions all the time what he liked but when I told him lets try another position he was down for it. Now the sex toys he like to look @ me using the toys which I love for him to look but he gets mad take my toy then he do what he do lol lol i think bc he see i enjoy it!!!!! So Ms. Shakina keep writing blogs i really enjoy reading them all!!!!!

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  3. Thank you guys soooo much for your comments!!!! :) I am glad to know that not only are people still reading my blog, but they are enjoying it! I appreciate that more than you'll ever know.

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