Saturday, December 3, 2011

There's No I In Team But There Is A Me

I don't know why I don't learn from trying to post from my phone, but anyways... Some people don't know how to go from "it's all about me" to "it's us against the world" when they enter a relationship, which of course causes issues. People get so caught up in trying to do what's best for them and not considering other people's feelings that it is hard to transition to someone who actually gives a care when they meet someone new. And in other cases, they really don't care. There are people out there who only want to get into a relationship if it is going to benefit them and make their lives better in some way. I brought this topic up to tell you to beware. Beware so that if you meet someone who has intentions on taking, taking, taking and never giving anything back, you won't be taken on a ride. Beware so that you aren't fooled by someone who only wants to look out for themselves. I'd also say beware so that you, yourself, don't become one of those people because it's definitely hard to trust anyone but yourself these days, but you must remember life is all about taking chances. Don't get so caught up in trying to look out for yourself to make sure you don't get hurt that you miss out on someone who really only had your best interest at heart. A relationship involves two people and if one party is reaping all the benefits, is the only one whose feelings are considered, the other person really isn't needed.

1 comment:

  1. Thats the most broken down truth ever said, miss Shakina keep up the good work and may your future be taking over with blessings.

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