Bitter Women

Maybe you'll be upset by me speaking up on this but oh well, my blog, my opinion. I just want to know WHY ARE WE SO FREAKING BITTER/ANGRY??? Listen, if you have been hurt in the past, this man or that man did you wrong, GET OVER IT! Realize that YOU have to accept your part in the situation, too. As the saying goes "a man can only do what you allow." Yes, it was wrong of him to lie to you, cheat on you, string you along or whatever it was that he did, but you played a part in it, too. You knew he was lying and stayed because you "loved" him. You knew he was cheating and stayed because you were his "main chick". You hung on when you knew he had absolutely no intentions on building a relationship with you because you thought a piece if a man was better than having no man at all. YOU made the decision to endure the things that he did to you so YOU need to take responsibility for that and stop taking it out on everyone else! Being bitter hurts no one but you. Let go and let God and see what a difference that will make. And if you have had failed relationship after failed relationship after failed relationship, maybe you should take a step back and examine yourself. Examine how you present yourself to men. Examine what it is that you truly want and don't settle for less! And most of all "above all else, guard your heart" (Proverbs 4:23)