Good Sex Begins Outside Of The Bedroom

Women are typically emotional creatures, which means we need an emotional connection with our partners in order to really enjoy sex (although there are always exceptions to every rule). You have to have that special spark to have that amazing, out of this world sex so that means you have to spend time doing things together outside of the bedroom. Intimacy doesn't mean sex only. Find things that you both enjoy and do them sporadically. Have romantic evenings together, talk about the things that make you attracted to each other. These are ways to show each other how much you care and build an even stronger connection. Also, try something new together whether it be a new outdoor activity or a new restaurant. Just feeling more connected to your partner, learning new and exciting things about them, can excite you even more when you finally do get back to the bedroom for sex. Now, just because I'm suggesting that you be intimate outside the bedroom doesn't mean you should NOT be intimate inside the bedroom, too. It has been said that women are like ovens and men are like microwaves. We need time to warm up or get aroused, while nine times out of ten the man is ready to go from the door. So, slow your roll and do a little foreplay. Kissing, rubbing, even a little dirty talk. Talk about what you can't wait to do or what you'd like to have happen. Build the tension before jumping right in it'll make the sex that much more exciting when you get there. Another thing that may be helpful in having more explosive sex and building the tension would be starting in the morning. Send a sexy text to your mate right after arriving to work in the morning, if you live together, whisper what you can wait to do that night in their ear before parting ways. Have a "quickie wake up session" before work with promises to have a longer session that night. All I'm saying is good sex is much more than the act of intercourse itself. Think about how much better sex could be if you know how much the person you're doing it with cares about you or you build up a lot of tension before releasing it during sex. You'll enjoy it that much more.